Channel: Kate Spring

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Description: ----------------------Go to: KateSpring.com/FREE ------------------------ --------------------Go Watch My Free Full Video Presentation!--------------------- Hey there, and welcome to my channel! Or welcome back! I’m Kate Spring, a dating and relationship coach from the west coast of Canada. And for this video, I want to touch on a topic that has come up a lot in conversation and that is the idea of “Game.” What is it and how do you get it? For a long time, even I thought that game was this thing that only certain men were born with, but in reality, it’s just charisma. And what is charisma? Charisma is compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others. That sounds pretty sweet, doesn’t it? Charisma, and or Game, is actually not some innate feature that a select few are born with, but It is developed by practicing and acquiring new behavioral skills. So what are these skills required to improve your game or create it out of scratch? Before I give you the deets, I just want to remind you to leave any questions that come up for you in the comments section below and I’ll be sure to get back to you, personally, as soon as I can. And don’t forget to subscribe to my channel where you’ll be updated every time that I release a new video. 1. Take Initiative: Alright, so the first step in improving your game is to take initiative. Initiative is the ability to assess and initiate things independently. When a man takes initiative in his life this shows a woman that you are self-assured and that you know what you want and that you go after it. You’re active in getting what you want because you aren’t afraid of what other people think about you. So, in a sense, this shows confidence. So stop asking for a girls number, stop asking her to dance. Instead, pose it as a statement, “let me grab your number” or “let’s dance!” Be confident in what you want and go after it. That’s a man that women want to be around. Now, with this, it’s important to understand that while you should take initiative, you should NOT be pushy. If a woman is apprehensive and her body language is indicating that she is uncomfortable, then do not push her. Make it playful and fun. But understand when no means no. Consent is a huge topic right now and I want to make sure that you understand that when I say take initiative I don’t mean to ignore the non-verbal signals that women send when they’re uninterested And creating connections and finding similarities between your life and a girl that you’re just getting to know is key in making her keen on getting to know you and spend more time with you. 3. Posture/ body language: One of the best ways to exude charisma is through your body language. The way that you carry yourself says a lot about a person. Something that I was taught pretty early on was to act as if you belong in any room that you enter. Even if you feel like a complete fish out of water flopping around hopelessly, FAKE IT! The best things that you can do to fake it are to stand tall and take up space. Make eye contact, smile, and open up your body to the people with whom you’re engaging. That is the posture of a guy with charisma and game. The guy that is approachable and makes people feel comfortable when they’re around him. And Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Mistakes humanize people, which makes them more likeable. Nobody wants to top toe around a perfect person. That’s not a realistic way to live your life. And if you’re anxious, just know that that means that you’re spending too much time thinking about what will, might or could happen, when you should just focus on the moment. Anxiety is over thinking the future, and wanting to know exactly how something will play out before you can even attempt to try, but that’s not how life works. So enjoy in the moment and try your best. Fake it till you become it. 4. Sense of humor: And last but not least, have a sense of humor. Don’t be afraid to laugh make jokes. Laughter relaxes people, and when people feel relaxed around you they feel comfortable around you therefore will want to spend more time with you. And those are four behavioral skills that you can employ in your life to become the most charismatic version of yourself and immediately improve your game. Alright, you guys, that’s all I have for you today. Make sure that you subscribe to my channel where you can stay up to date with my latest videos. And if you like what you’ve learned here please give it a thumbs up. As always, thank you for your constant support! And I’ll see you in my next video.