Channel: Dan Bacon
Category: Howto & Style
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Description: If you want to avoid the friend zone and get to sex and a relationship (if you want that too), then make sure that you don’t put yourself in the position where you are hoping to be liked and accepted by her. Instead, make her feel like she needs to be liked and accepted by you. One of the easiest ways to do that, is to FLIP THE SCRIPT by playfully judging her as you talk to her (examples in the video above). When you occasionally playfully judge a woman as you talk to her, it makes her laugh and feel attracted to your confidence and social intelligence. It also makes her feel like she is the one under the spotlight who now needs to come up with something cool to say to you to be liked and accepted. When she feels that way during an interaction, she begins to look at you as a man that she wants to win over, which then makes her start to develop romantic feelings for you. It’s a very subtle, but powerful technique to use and it works. Yet, most guys don’t ever do it. Instead, most guys put themselves in the position where they are trying to say and do all the right things to be liked and accepted by a woman. Women don’t feel attracted to that and often refer to those type of guys as pushovers. Women definitely do want to find themselves a good man, but they don’t want a guy who feels like he has to say and do everything perfectly in order to get a pass from her. Instead, she wants to be the one who is on the back foot, where she feels like she needs to impress you to be liked and accepted by you. It’s very easy to do and the thing is, it’s either going to be you or her who takes on the position as the person who is doing the judging and selecting. If you take on that position, women will feel attracted to you for it and want to win you over. On the other hand, if you take on the position where you are hoping to be accepted and liked by a woman, you will usually get friend zoned, even though you could have attracted that woman, had sex with her and had a relationship with her as well if you wanted to. By the way… If you are one of the guys who finds it difficult to attract women, so you can get laid or get yourself a quality girlfriend, or if you find it difficult to smoothly transition from a conversation to touching, kissing and sex, then I recommend that you read my eBook The Flow, or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio: themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html The Flow is the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend and contains everything that you need to know to go from, “Hello” to sex with a woman that you find attractive. Okay, I hope you enjoyed today’s video and I’ll see you in the next one. Cheers Dan Bacon Founder of TheModernMan.com and author of, The Flow.